Life is so busy, who has time to go out as a couple on a date ever?? We have our children, carpools, jobs, shopping, carpools (again), bedtime (hours for some of us), community functions, laundry, cleaning, etc.
How can we possibly push ourselves to go out at night? As you saw from Tobi Lieder: This is a must!
Alone quality time, whatever you call it, is definitely a must. The couple is the foundation of the home. Without Shalom bayat the whole family suffers so incorporating alone quality time is a worthwhile investment