Not Who I Married, By Reuven & Shira Boshnack

Dear Rabbi and Shira I’m not sure what to do. I married my wife over a year ago thinking that she was a typical woman from a similar background as myself. We both grew up in Flatbush and are more modern than our parents. The problem is I didn’t realize how modern she actually is. Slowly after we got married, she started wearing shorter and shorter skirts, and sometimes now even wears pants. She has what she calls her “Flatbush closet” so when we go back to Brooklyn she can still dress the part. While she use to say parts of Shacharis each morning, that has all but stopped. I haven’t seen her siddur leave our bookcase in months. I’d like to say something, but I’m not keeping everything either, so I feel kind of hypocritical to bring it up. What should I do? Faked out in the Five towns Dear