What if my b’show didn’t work?

This post will undoubtedly elicit strong reactions from readers on both sides of this issue. I want to preempt that I realize some, even many couples successfully meet, marry, and build families using the b’show system of mate selection, and go on to live happily ever after. When that happens, it is very fortunate. The following piece is a reflection of and a message to those individuals for whom it has been more complex: “I didn’t know my husband before the wedding. He’s a good person, maybe a nicer person than I am, so I know I’m lucky. But I just find that I don’t want to spend time with him. I don’t love how he looks, what he enjoys talking about, or how handles tasks in life. There’s nothing very bad about him, but if he had been a girl in my high school, we never would have been frie