Why am I not married yet? By Rabbi Daniel Schonbuch

Question: I’m a 32-year single Orthodox woman living in New York and I’m having trouble getting married. I’ve dated over 40 guys and never felt that I found the right one. What should I do? Answer: Dear Reader, Unfortunately, the question you asked is not so uncommon. In fact, I would say, as a marriage and family therapist who deals with helping singles get married, that about half of my clients every week are in a similar position that you are in today. Due to my knowledge of family and relational psychology, I understand the dynamics of singles who have spent years dating numerous people but are unable to close the deal. Let me share with you one of the most profound insights I learned as a therapist and I have shared with hundreds of young professionals who I have helped to get married